Seth Simonds of Lifehack.org writes some incredible Posts on life changing. I share them here with you mixed with some of my own advice.
1. Make a list of things you’re grateful for
This one is so simple! If you’re having a rotten day, grab a piece of paper and start listing things you’d be grateful for if you were in a grateful mood. As expected, you’ll soon find that the growing list of things to be grateful for in your life dwarfs whatever is ruining your day and you can move on with your life. Chris Voss Advice: There are some great iPhone Apps to keep and record things your grateful for – check them out. When your not busy you can contemplate them anywhere.
2. Clear out your inbox
If you don’t work at a job that requires you to spend time around the corporate email monster, this might not resonate with you as much. But if you do, know that your perspective can be changed dramatically just by selecting all your emails and placing them into an archive folder. If it needs to be done today, move that email back into your inbox and knock the task off. Setting aside the conversations that can wait in favor of earning a productive finish to your day will always prove worthwhile.
3. Phone a good friend
Call a friend who won’t allow you to gripe about your problems for more than a few minutes before turning the conversation to something far more interesting than what’s making you sad. Talking to somebody you trust who cares enough to guide you toward positive thinking has tremendous value. It’s basic, sure. But so are most things that work really well yet are so often forgotten early on. Chris Voss Advice: Dont always goto friends who will help you put on a pity party, its unproductive. Either get a coach or someone who will be honest with you and help you grow.
4. Help out a stranger
Doing something for others has the dual benefit of making the world a better place while at the same time taking your focus off your own problems as you work to solve another’s. If you’re having what’s shaping up to be a bad day you may find it very helpful to go out of your way to help somebody you don’t know at all or might not know very well. I always do! Chris Voss Advice: I’ve blogged about this before – the best time that you can give, is when its the hardest. “A life worth living, is a life worth giving.” It’ll make you feel so good again.
5. Drop something from your schedule
If you’re overwhelmed by a day gone awry one very quick solution is to drop something of lesser importance from your schedule and take some time for yourself. This is terribly simple and quite easy to do but the part of your brain that tries to convince you your work won’t survive without you will get in the way. Don’t listen to it!
6. Take some time just for you
Most of us don’t schedule time alone and away from others. Whether its so we can listen to music, go for a walk, a run, or grab a cup of tea in a quiet corner, taking the time you may have freed up by clearing your schedule (see above) and investing it back into yourself will render dividends galore. Chris Voss Advice: On Items 6 & 7, see my other post 7 Simple Ways To Be Happier In Life
7. Start laughing
Laughter, even if you really have to work at it to begin with, truly is the best medicine to cure any ailment that threatens to wreck your day. You can find jokes online, watch silly youtube videos, hang out with a hysterical friend, or whatever gets you giggling. The big point here is that if you are aware of what makes you laugh you’re in a great position to set yourself up to laugh even when your day tries to get you down. We can learn a lot from kids about having fun and being goofballs. That sort of childlike whimsy, if carried into your day, will help you cut off the bad days before they get out of control and help maximize the days each week you look back on and say, wow, that was a great day!
Tell me what you think in the comments below!
Very good advice and easy to follow!
Always like to start the day with a smile, seeing the snow this morning and it’s beauty helps with that today. Especially seeing Darrell doing her snow angels at 7am this morning lol.
Good advice Chris.
This is fantastic! I’ve already done #’s 4 & 6 to help make a bad day into a good day (I’m a mobile spa consultant, so #6 is what I preach to my clients). I’ll have to try out the rest, looks like they might do the trick 😉
Christine
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Good advice from Seth Simonds & Chris Voss.
This is a great list and I look forward to sharing with other tweeps on Twitter. Your timing was perfect for me. I try to list five things I’m grateful for each day before going to sleep at night but hadn’t tried it yet in the middle of the day. 🙂
Great post, Chris! This arrived at just the right time for me. I try to list five things I’m grateful for each night before going to bed, and I will now try to do so in the middle of the day per your suggestion whenever needed. Thanks!
Chris – great and timely post! I often list five things I’m grateful for each day before going to sleep at night, but hadn’t though to use it to change a bad mood. All great suggestions!
Everybody could use a better day ’cause it leads to a better (and longer) life. Thanks for sharing this.
Improved my day by just reading it. Mind you a nice glass of Brandy helps!
Cheers
Beermatman
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This is excellent and timely. I like the brandy suggestion as well, although a nice red wine works as well, too. I love this holiday energy but it can be tiring at times. I enjoy your tweets. Laura
Spend some time with ur children or family. It also feel you good. 🙂
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As human beings, we always seem to put the greatest amount of efforts into the items we have the least amount of control over. Take some time to realize what you have instead of what you want, and be thankful.
Just like the advertisements for ScotiaBank say, “you are richer than you think”.
Merry Christmas, everyone.
Chris Kulbaba
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Great post. With this being the “quietest week ever” it’s a good time to think about these things.
This was wonderful! Thanks for sharing. I’ll be sure to share with my friends. 🙂
We often forget the simple pleasures! Great reminder of how we are all in charge of choosing our attitudes!
Thanks for the simple, useful information.
Good advice it does work and add Do not watch the news on TV or read the newspaper they thrive on bad news and make you feel bad.
Thanks for the uplifting list! I’ll be sure to pass it along.
Love your #1 way to turn a bad day into a good day. I’ve started a 365 Days in Gratitude blog that I’d love to share with everyone! When you change your thought pattern, your whole world changes! And it’s contagious! Please join me at http://urbestlifeyet.blogspot.com/ My goal is to inspire.
Thanks for the good tips. 🙂
Hey Chris, thanks for the tips buddy. These are some “sure ways” to go from negative to positive especially the gratitude list. I completely agree. I need to this more often and will do thanks to your inspiration brother. God Bless, Curt aka CBiz
Thanks for the good tips. I’ll add another one. Get outside! Even if it’s raining, some fresh air on your face can be so beneficial!
Good tips Chris. Some harder than others, but enough to choose from when you are having a bad day and need to keep it positive! – (e)NAKEVA
I agree with Nakeva. Some are definitely harder (like #2) but others are definitely doable (like #7). I’m hoping to have a bit of #6 pretty soon. Thanks for these great reminders, Chris. =)
I like #7 — you can laugh for no reason, even if nothing is funny. The body doesn’t know the difference between a self-generated laugh and a spontaneous one. You still get the physical benefits of a boost in mood and immune system, release of “feel good” endorphins, and exercise for your internal organs. Try fake laughter in front of the mirror and see if it doesn’t make you laugh for real. Just laugh your stress away!
Too late… I’ve already muddled through the mundane task of email trawlling… Hold on. I’m supposed to only use this for a Bad Day? Sounds like things I’d like to use all the time – to turn a good day into a Great Day!
Too late… I’ve already muddled through the mundane task of email trawlling… Hold on. I’m supposed to only use this for a Bad Day? Sounds like things I’d like to use all the time – to turn a good day into a Great Day!
nice thought.. was very upset because of my son..now feeling better after reading..thanks for sharing
Great tips!.. i just finish reading Nik Blog, its help’s alot also. might as well you want to read it.
Heres the link http://www.thethrillionaire.com/blog/helpful-tips-how-to-turn-your-bad-day-around-for-the-better/