Let me tell you a story that I hope will inspire small business people and anyone who finds this story most interesting. If youve read my Bio, I’ve made a few lucky breaks in my life. Luck is when preparedness meets opportunity (along with your Vision). If you havent yet, click the tab at the top of my site “About Chris Voss” and you can see my Vision has made its own way.
I’ll never forget a point in my young life where I was down to my last $20. I saw a guy sitting beside a 7-11, living out of a shopping cart. I was moved to help him. He impressed me because homeless though he was, he was tentatively reading the paper very smartly. I thought this is a guy whos down on his luck or his choices. His cart was filled with the basics to live a simple life. I watched him read the paper for a bit and remembered something Tony Robbins had taught me, that sometimes THE MOST IMPORTANT TIME TO GIVE IS WHEN YOU ALMOST HAVE NOTHING BUT YOURSELF TO GIVE. Sometimes when you have nothing, that is the most important time to give back. Its a lesson I follow like a religion that in my most darkest moments it is the most important time to give more than I can and to release myself unto the universe. I gave him $15 bucks asking his reassurance he would spend it on food and he was very happy. He was so kind, nice and grateful, I felt so ashamed walking back to my car that I could not give him more. I’ll never forget that feeling. I literally had $5.00 left to my name with no more income in sight and needed gas to get me home, I had NO idea where my next dollar was coming from. I cannot tell you how good I felt giving him almost my last penny. It was a release. I let go to the universe and I really didnt care. He set the bar at being far worse off than I. I remember thinking one thing, in all my worst suffering I still had more than he, a car a place to sleep in a home at night. After that, suddenly that night income came out of nowhere almost immediately that which I needed to succeed. Over and over I revisiting that 7-11 seeking to help him, I never saw him again. I stopped and looked there over and over for years, making excuses to drive by hoping to give him the money I couldnt give at the time. At that corner I stop and always scan for him, even now, wondering where he wandered off to in that Las Vegas heat.
You know the hardest thing to do when you start a small business, is to motivate yourself to work for yourself. After the birth of one of my most successful companies, at the moment we touched a small profitability, I committed to monthly giving away 5% of the revenues to a Childrens Hospital’s Child Abuse Ward. This Hospital Ward was involved in protecting and securing the worst child abuse cases. I had personal reasons to be vested to do this interest. Much of its work was not only healing a beaten child but working with Child Services to fighting to protect it from returning to a bad environment. I’m very passionate about protecting beings that cannot protect themselves. Much to the chagrin of my business partner, who didnt see my vision on how important it is to give, at the time it was an issue. In the end I prevailed as CEO.
I’d started a few small companies before, but this one started a trend of a 22 company empire where I hit home run after home run in profitable companies I vested us in. Where 99% of business’s fail I started profitable companies time and time again in a row. While one can say my visions where in line, we always gave to something bigger than ourselves. I’d like to think that was our true success. Donating to charities has been a big part of my business’. A life worth living is a life worth giving. I really believe that has made a difference and has driven me harder to succeed. My point is that giving and having a commitment to get up everyday thinking about someone other than ourselves, I sincerely believe, was a integral key to my success with our companies.
My grandfather taught me an important lesson in this movie about selflessness. There is one key moment in this part of the film.
I would recommend something like this to many small business’. You will wake everyday, realizing its not about you and I believe you work harder for something bigger than yourself. Sometimes you work a little harder when its not about you. Now I get that people work for their families, but the world is bigger than that. Its only when you give to someone you will never know or gain from that I believe you truly live, outside and beyond yourself.
If you get a chance give to the ASPCA or a charity of your choice. My fav is the ASPCA. Sometimes its best to protect those with no voice, but all heart. Remember the vision, that a life WORTH living, is a life WORTH giving. Work for a life bigger than your own, that someone may say that you passed this way and that they might remember the impact of your name… We are here as caretakers…let us be good Stewards… Give and enrich your life by giving to others. I do believe the strong are blessed to be mantled with the ability to protect the helpless. I’m not sure what the universe is about but I know that when I give and care about others, somehow I get a return. Thankfully that return helps keep me giving it back to the people that need it, more. Ask yourself often, what is my Legacy, my impact that keeps on giving to the world and how can I build more of it. My job is to help people with their dreams and help them fulfill them.
Someday, My goal is to make a fortune so large I can give to millions of people. I’ve made fortunes already. But I can affect change in my little corner for now.
Make the world a better place by what you give, more than take and you will be successful. No matter how small your corner of the world, effect positive change and influence and you will impact your world in a way in which will inevitably return to you. Shine On.
Chris N. Voss
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I was moved by your article. I have had similar experiences. Tis better to give than receive for by giving you are paving the way for a bigger brighter future. Ample Green Foundation is all about giving.
I was moved by your article. I have had similar experiences. Tis better to give than receive for by giving you are paving the way for a bigger brighter future. Ample Green Foundation is all about giving.
Thank you for the inspiration. I love your site.
Lisa
Very inspiring and moving post Chris. You rock! I agree with your philosophy of giving and of sharing -the whole idea of looking beyond yourself, being aware of others, and of working for something bigger than yourself is beautiful. I believe you get back what you put out.
Very inspiring and moving post Chris. You rock! I agree with your philosophy of giving and of sharing -the whole idea of looking beyond yourself, being aware of others, and of working for something bigger than yourself is beautiful. I believe you get back what you put out.
Thank you for the inspiration. I love your site.
Lisa
Man, Chris – I so identify with what you said in your post! I’m a single mom of 6 who at one point lived in a small camper with her kids, I’ve lost jobs, asked churches for food – the stories could go on forever.
I’ve always tried to give to others – even when it appeared we had nothing to give – I’ve raised my kids to be socially conscious and we all work daily to give back. Are we special? No – we just stopped asking “what can I do?” and started doing the tiny little things we could.
I’m a successful internet marketer in the natural health field, have a great job with an herbal remedies company and my greatest wish is that I can do humanitarian projects full-time. It will happen – I don’t know when, but it will happen.
We have a small project called “Smiles For Healing” (you can read about it on our site if you wish) and it’s about what you related – giving what you can – it doesn’t have to be huge to make a difference – it just has to be DONE. 🙂
What a neat blog and perspective you have – I’m glad I clicked the link on Twitter and came and checked out your site!
Many blessings to you,
Dee
Man, Chris – I so identify with what you said in your post! I’m a single mom of 6 who at one point lived in a small camper with her kids, I’ve lost jobs, asked churches for food – the stories could go on forever.
I’ve always tried to give to others – even when it appeared we had nothing to give – I’ve raised my kids to be socially conscious and we all work daily to give back. Are we special? No – we just stopped asking “what can I do?” and started doing the tiny little things we could.
I’m a successful internet marketer in the natural health field, have a great job with an herbal remedies company and my greatest wish is that I can do humanitarian projects full-time. It will happen – I don’t know when, but it will happen.
We have a small project called “Smiles For Healing” (you can read about it on our site if you wish) and it’s about what you related – giving what you can – it doesn’t have to be huge to make a difference – it just has to be DONE. 🙂
What a neat blog and perspective you have – I’m glad I clicked the link on Twitter and came and checked out your site!
Many blessings to you,
Dee
Chris: I couldn’t agree more. Aligning my own personal goals with the need to help others is one of my primary motivations and – similar to you – it’s one of the reasons why I get out of bed in the morning.
To whom much is given, much is expected.
Chris: I couldn’t agree more. Aligning my own personal goals with the need to help others is one of my primary motivations and – similar to you – it’s one of the reasons why I get out of bed in the morning.
To whom much is given, much is expected.
I applaud you and others like you. I recently read about a couple who live underneath Las Vegas. It’s amazing what some people have to do to survive. It makes me thankful every day especially I’m about one paycheck away from similar circumstances but not afraid to help someone in worse shape.
I applaud you and others like you. I recently read about a couple who live underneath Las Vegas. It’s amazing what some people have to do to survive. It makes me thankful every day especially I’m about one paycheck away from similar circumstances but not afraid to help someone in worse shape.
Chris,
Your story is moving and inspirational. I’ve always been taught to give. I learned from the example my parents set for me. They would give the very last cent they had to help someone else.
When giving is sacrificial, the blessing the giver receives is far greater than the one they gave to.
In my wedding and event design business, I give away way too much, but it blesses my brides and gives me a feeling of satisfaction, too.
God has blessed you with financial success. Sometimes the blessings come in other ways.
.-= Pamela Archer´s last blog ..The Smell of Chocolate Is Brain Therapy =-.
Chris,
Your story is moving and inspirational. I’ve always been taught to give. I learned from the example my parents set for me. They would give the very last cent they had to help someone else.
When giving is sacrificial, the blessing the giver receives is far greater than the one they gave to.
In my wedding and event design business, I give away way too much, but it blesses my brides and gives me a feeling of satisfaction, too.
God has blessed you with financial success. Sometimes the blessings come in other ways.
.-= Pamela Archer´s last blog ..The Smell of Chocolate Is Brain Therapy =-.
Thank you Chris,for the many visions that started my day today. People every day are taking advice from others and your story has put the wall between “leading from the heart” and following the person that says “nice guys dont win,its a dog eat dog world out there”. Your right,leading with a passion for a cause can be very powerful and rewarding especially when it comes natural. I will carry your message and keep in touch.
Thank you Chris,for the many visions that started my day today. People every day are taking advice from others and your story has put the wall between “leading from the heart” and following the person that says “nice guys dont win,its a dog eat dog world out there”. Your right,leading with a passion for a cause can be very powerful and rewarding especially when it comes natural. I will carry your message and keep in touch.
What a moving story. If helping others was the true intention and focus of every business person, the world would be such a different place!
Blessings…
DeAnn
What a moving story. If helping others was the true intention and focus of every business person, the world would be such a different place!
Blessings…
DeAnn
Ony this morning outlined a business plan including a commitment to donate part of the proceeds to charity so this post caught my eye… amazing, totally enccouraging story! You have to believe that you get back what you put out… thanks for sharing!
Ony this morning outlined a business plan including a commitment to donate part of the proceeds to charity so this post caught my eye… amazing, totally enccouraging story! You have to believe that you get back what you put out… thanks for sharing!
Fate has a sneaky way of giving us exactly what we deserve, no matter what that is! I love your blog and your outlook – keep it up, please!
.-= Lisa Gergets´s last blog ..Pink Fingerless Gloves with 3-Button Trim =-.
Fate has a sneaky way of giving us exactly what we deserve, no matter what that is! I love your blog and your outlook – keep it up, please!
.-= Lisa Gergets´s last blog ..Pink Fingerless Gloves with 3-Button Trim =-.
great article, inspiring and well written.
Thanks
Thanks for that great article Chris.
I do agree with you. Theren are several ways to give. you can brighten someones day with a smile.
You can give money.
Or you can give your time and share your knowledge.
I do a bit of all.
My dream is to build a charity for children who help themselves to pursue their dreams. and the best way to do it is to connect them with mentors living close to them, who are willing to devote time to the dream of the child. To help with contacts, knowledge and an open heart.
I have ideas, a concept, some helpers. It needs a movement to build such a charity which works worldwide. It needs lots of expertise.
Currently I am writing a book, the text is nearly finished. And the translaters could start soon. I am sure I will find an illustrator who likes to participate in that projekt. My dream is that all the revenue from the books go right into the charity. Till now all work on that projekt in a way open to give.
And I want to connect to lots of people who live their dreams and are willing to mentor a child as long as it is neccesary. And I also will find companies who are willing to support that, with money and opportunities for the children and youngsters to learn from them.
And I want to connect to people who are willing to offer Seminars for the children.
A lot to do.
And beside that I have to care about the legalisation in different countries.
And I need a lot of publicity for that purpose.
I found a name for the charity: Astrataler. Which has the meaning Astra = star and Taler is the name of the Valuta.
You know what since I am doing that, I feel great as it is one of my dreams to create such a charity.
You can contact mia via Twitter, if you like to participate in that movement which create smiles on many peoples faces and improve societies.
I am looking forward to more inspiring articles from you and inspiring comments.
Enjoy your day and give to brighten the day of other people.
Larissa
Wow!!! what a beautiful story. It has made me realize that I should share what I have. Thank you very much.
.-= Nimia Acebes´s last blog ..Leaders Pay Attention to the Details =-.
Wow!!! what a beautiful story. It has made me realize that I should share what I have. Thank you very much.
.-= Nimia Acebes´s last blog ..Leaders Pay Attention to the Details =-.
Thank you for believing in the principle of giving enough to share it with us. My greatest joy comes from giving to others with a pure heart as I believe that is why we are on this earth…to be a blessing.
I am a new follower of your blog and am looking forward to learning more about you.
.-= Kellie Stewart´s last blog ..Are You Living A Life of Purpose? =-.
Thank you for believing in the principle of giving enough to share it with us. My greatest joy comes from giving to others with a pure heart as I believe that is why we are on this earth…to be a blessing.
I am a new follower of your blog and am looking forward to learning more about you.
.-= Kellie Stewart´s last blog ..Are You Living A Life of Purpose? =-.
Lovely story and well done on your charitable donations. If we give a little often it all adds up in the end and if you haven’t got money to give then time is always needed by other people who have problems too.
Lovely story and well done on your charitable donations. If we give a little often it all adds up in the end and if you haven’t got money to give then time is always needed by other people who have problems too.
Love this post. Perfect timing for a message like this. I share your belief in giving – it unleashes blessings that we cannot even contain. ASPCA is one of our favorites too. Great organization. Inspired by this post. Thank you!
It would seem that although this is an old post, it's the first time I've seen it. Thanks, Chris!!!
Can not wait to give more. Congratulations on attaining and maintaing that “attitude of grattitude.”
Hey Chris, Thanks for the great reminder! I like the personal and corporate implications! G3!
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Thanks bud
Hey, Its a very nice and touching article.
really liked your gesture of giving almost all you had got !! Your attitude of gratitude is inspiring 🙂
Thank you
Chris, I really loved your article on giving and it has inspired me to do more in the way of giving and to look at who I can help and benefit to some stranger. Again it is so true that givers gain and this is one more powerful reason why.
That's probably why I started a membership site where we can all help each other. Chris your expertise will be needed.
Thanks Glad you Liked it Robert!
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Hey Chris! The homeless man may very well have been an Angel. The secret to living is giving…if all of us realized this, we couldn't outgive what the Law of Giving provides. Great post! Tim
Awww, this is so inspiring! I was moved big time. Thanks for this very touching piece! Let me share this article that I wrote when I left my hometown in 2007 and decided to settle at the country's capital for work. (Since you were talking about lucky breaks!)
http://kristinatividad.blogspot.com/2009/08/sti…
Awww, this is so inspiring! I was moved big time. Thanks for this very touching piece! Let me share this article that I wrote when I left my hometown in 2007 and decided to settle at the country's capital for work. (Since you were talking about lucky breaks!)
http://kristinatividad.blogspot.com/2009/08/sti…
Very Powerful message here! Thanks for linking us up! I am inspired by you.
I agree, many times when I have been moved to give when it was all I had, turns out to be a bigger blessing for me! Giving back will always be important in anything I do. Thanks for sharing this Chris
Thanks, this is a motto I live by and I try to attach a charity to almost everything I do, any event I can. I have a passion for children's charities and it's easy since I have a children's clothing company. I find people like to help while purchasing something they want anyway. I am going to start a foundation within the year to really start making a dent in one particular place. Nice post, what a great way to end my night.
Thanks, this is a motto I live by and I try to attach a charity to almost everything I do, any event I can. I have a passion for children's charities and it's easy since I have a children's clothing company. I find people like to help while purchasing something they want anyway. I am going to start a foundation within the year to really start making a dent in one particular place. Nice post, what a great way to end my night.
Inspiring indeed. Thanks for sharing that Chris, I needed the reminder and inspiration.
Hugh
Such a great read Chris. I added this story to my favorite links on our Weekly 30 list: http://thirtymag.com/weekly-30/weekly-30-august-20/
Thanks!
christian
I have had something similar happen. I started going to church with a friend.
Of course the bible says to tithe 10% of your income. At the time I was a single mom with an ok job.
I had $8.00 to my name and need gas for my car to get home and then to work, but was very moved to put $4.00 into the collection basket. I had heard or read somewhere that when you donate, you will get that amount (and then some) back.
It happened! Suddenly I started getting overtime, and started training for a new position with higher pay! And it was better hours and a great position!
Same thing a few years later…an acquaintance was going through a hard time and had 2 kids to feed, with no money in sight for a few days. Several of us donated food to the family.
I didn’t have much myself, but shared what I could. I never missed the stuff..somehow I got the money to buy what I needed later.
Giving is powerful!
Being able to give is truly a gift. I loved your story!
Thanks for the article. It’s refreshing to see people who view business as a vehicle not only for themselves, but also for others.
hello chris,i am one of your followers and i read the link.i am a sinlge mom who and her kids have just got out of a domestic violence situation. i have nothing left. i agree on giving,the reason i write to you today is because i need some help with any services you can suggest,i need housing,a job. basically everything,i use my daughters laptop to communicate,this soon to be cut off. i will be in southern california in nov any services would really be appreciated. thank you for your time.
It is so inspiring to hear bout kind thoughtful people who like to help children. Look into the new charity for PVL which is birth defects that are incurable. My sister in law has a child with PVL who just had his 9th birthday. Most PVL children to not live to that age. She is starting up a PVL charity to help PVL children and their families. Look up Team Darius on Facebook or go to my webpage http://www.Designer Daschund Dog Clothing/designerdaschund.com to see the link.